Children Are Learning By Everything A Parent Does

By Lewis Ralph


One of the most challenging times in any person's life are the stressful years experienced as a teenager. Physical and emotional stress, along with hormonal changes, mark some of the more difficult times that teenagers will have. Handling these difficult years can be hard, but it is all part of the natural process of growing up. This is not to say that the teenage years are not full of bright and shiny moments. In fact, most adults will look back at their memories as teenagers and realize what a fantastic time they actually had. For others, high school is one of their most awful memories because of certain people that made their lives miserable.
A common negative experience that most children have to go through peer pressure. Teenagers are the most susceptible to peer pressure because it operates at a higher level in high school. Many times parents have no idea about it because their children do not discuss what is going on. The best way you can help your kids, if this is what they are experiencing, is to be there for them at all times. Much of your success will depend on your child's personality and the quality of your relationship. As you probably know, every situation that you deal with must be handled differently most of the time. So the situation can be very difficult, sometimes. You can even be very direct and simply ask your child if they are experiencing pressure from other children.

To have well-adjusted children, the parents need to provide a healthy environment, which means consistency at home. Children do well when they know they are part of something, like a family, and when they know what their role is.

Another thing you need to know is that child's brain is wired to do different things; some will be good with math and others better with English. Some children have that particular make-up that causes them to have an interest in school subjects and learning them. Other children may have strong passions for things that have nothing to do with school or an interest to learn the subjects. Understanding your kids is one of the top priorities of parents that realize that once you have a feel for their personality, you will be more able to help them. Having a goal of completing high school, hopefully with very high grades, should be a primary goal for your teenage kids. And if they are having problems, always let them know that they can get tutoring help along the way.

It is great to push a
Another thing you need to know is that child's brain is wired to do different things; some will be good with math and others better with English. Some children have that particular make-up that causes them to have an interest in school subjects and learning them. Other children may have strong passions for things that have nothing to do with school or an interest to learn the subjects. Understanding your kids is one of the top priorities of parents that realize that once you have a feel for their personality, you will be more able to help them. Having a goal of completing high school, hopefully with very high grades, should be a primary goal for your teenage kids. And if they are having problems, always let them know that they can get tutoring help along the way.

It is great to push a child, and support a child, but this should only be in the direction the child would like to go, because it won't profit much if the child doesn't have desire. For a child to give something his or her best, there must be an inner passion or drive, and desiring to please a parent isn't always enough. That is why we recommend that you help your child explore their own natural inclinations and areas of interest in such activities.

The best parents are those who allow their children to find their own lives, and prepare them for it. People do what they like unless they have been forced into something else, and children are no different. Success is called having a passion, and having an ability in that passion, and having parents that will support that passion.




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